Comments on: Scaring Girls Off http://www.cod3r.com General things I find interesting Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:45:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Santiago http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-16850 Santiago Thu, 25 Sep 2008 06:51:17 +0000 http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-16850 Hey Graham, nice poem, I think I understand you, even if thats not my situation with girls. The key that worked for me at the end is: always be yourself, act as you feel natural, as your mind and heart tells you, even if you suspect its not "the way it s supposed to be". When its real, love and intimacy are always unique code for two, sincerely invented for the moment and relation. When you get to be "just friends", just show you want more...! A lot of couples where originally "just friends". There are no preconceptions, just shared happiness. That is love at the end: special people that makes you happy. Just... dont think about how you should do, because there is no real formula for that. That will destroy the real Graham. Just make the girl laugh, make her happy, make her smile. Ive seen your site and read your articles and poems and i am sure you can make a girl happy. That also demands an open mind, no much judging. Remember that. But it works! And dont give up, to love another human being is one of the best, the highest experiences in life. Women are a "magical mystery tour" man! Not to be missed! Good luck im sure by now you have your "dear one". A big hug from "La" Argentina (a feminine country, land of the most beautiful, complex, and atractive women on earth, a factory of beauty) Santiago Hey Graham, nice poem, I think I understand you, even if thats not my situation with girls. The key that worked for me at the end is: always be yourself, act as you feel natural, as your mind and heart tells you, even if you suspect its not “the way it s supposed to be”. When its real, love and intimacy are always unique code for two, sincerely invented for the moment and relation.

When you get to be “just friends”, just show you want more…! A lot of couples where originally “just friends”. There are no preconceptions, just shared happiness. That is love at the end: special people that makes you happy. Just… dont think about how you should do, because there is no real formula for that. That will destroy the real Graham. Just make the girl laugh, make her happy, make her smile. Ive seen your site and read your articles and poems and i am sure you can make a girl happy. That also demands an open mind, no much judging. Remember that. But it works! And dont give up, to love another human being is one of the best, the highest experiences in life. Women are a “magical mystery tour” man! Not to be missed! Good luck im sure by now you have your “dear one”. A big hug from “La” Argentina (a feminine country, land of the most beautiful, complex, and atractive women on earth, a factory of beauty) Santiago

]]> By: Graham Booker http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-12654 Graham Booker Thu, 29 May 2008 19:28:11 +0000 http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-12654 Kim, Actually, being light-hearted is someone my problem. I mostly end up being "just friends" and nothing more. At least now I have grown to appreciate these friendships and leave it at that. Kim,
Actually, being light-hearted is someone my problem. I mostly end up being “just friends” and nothing more. At least now I have grown to appreciate these friendships and leave it at that.

]]> By: Kim A. http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-12643 Kim A. Thu, 29 May 2008 16:30:03 +0000 http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-12643 That's a well written poem. Maybe you should start of with being light-hearted around girls. The serious stuff should come when things start rolling. That’s a well written poem. Maybe you should start of with being light-hearted around girls. The serious stuff should come when things start rolling.

]]> By: Craig C. http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-4642 Craig C. Fri, 19 Oct 2007 17:20:55 +0000 http://www.cod3r.com/poetry/scaring-girls-off/#comment-4642 That's real good advice. I have the same problem with girls too. I always seem to scare them off... I have tried writing notes to them, so after they read them, they look at their friends and get creeped out. Girls are just plain trouble! That’s real good advice. I have the same problem with girls too. I always seem to scare them off… I have tried writing notes to them, so after they read them, they look at their friends and get creeped out. Girls are just plain trouble!

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