Comments on: Female Friends Who Won’t Date You

By: Graham Booker

Graham Booker — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 19:24:30 +0000

Brad,
That may be what I am describing. The real question is does she consider it a date. If she does, then you are dating her and it is not what I am talking about. The asking to “take her out to eat” sounds more like a date to me though.

By: Brad

Brad — Wed, 26 Mar 2008 23:00:53 +0000

I am in something similar. She says we are close friends, if i leave her alone 4 a couple days she contacts me, she will even go out for walks and coffee. AND IF I ASK TO TAKE HER OUT TO EAT SHE GOES. Does this sound like what u described above

By: Shane Christensen

Shane Christensen — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 17:06:25 +0000

Mr. Fixit is right. Affection is not Attraction. His comment also sounds (reads?) like he’s read (heard of?) David DeAngelo. Unless Mr. Fixit actually IS David D., posing as ‘a mild-mannered reporter’ for the Singleville Times. I wonder…

(There’s a movie, ‘The Myth of the Male Orgasm’ that addresses this exact point. Watch it while drinking, and you might end up cheering & booing at the screen as if it were a hockey match.)

Wouldn’t it be great if we could choose who we were attracted to? Then at least we’d know how it works & why.

Go Aeros!

By: mr fixit

mr fixit — Sun, 04 Nov 2007 08:54:53 +0000

I do believe there are some cases where a girl does change her mind and date the guy, but such cases are rare.

it is rare because the guy never changes, hence he never becomes more attractive. attraction is not a choice. change yourself to change others reaction to you. if he grew rich and suddently mr social status and told her he didnt like her and talked to 10 other girls, she might change her attitude fast